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i don't know what happened at the wedding to make me feel less than human, but i am now wondering if i even have it in me to genuinely love or care about another person. they're such abstract concepts that i'm having trouble coming up with a concrete answer. can you think of any questions you can ask yourself, to gauge whether or not you care about somebody?

(for example, "if a friend needed $20, would you loan it to them?"
my answer would be yes, for pretty much anybody i know. i think there's a difference between knowing how to be a nice person, and actually caring about somebody, though. i think loaning somebody money is more about being a nice person (and always having extra cash on me, and knowing that even if i never see that $20 again, it's not the end of the world). what's a good question that would tell you whether or not you care about somebody, though?)

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I found you through an LGBT add me community and when I read some of your entries I thought you sounded interesting. I've been a part of LJ for a very long time (same amount of time as you, actually) but recently decided to start over with this new journal. I have one entry and no interests listed yet! So, I'll understand if you're not in the mood to take an LJ friend chance!
But just so you at least know a little bit about me...
I'm an American living in Brazil with my Brazilian wife.
I'm a lesbian.
I'm 28.
I'm a vegetarian.
I'm finally going back to school, studying nutrition, but I also teach ESL privately (which I hate).
I adore folk music, pop music, dance music, jazz....anything but country or punk really.
I adore reading (currently reading _The Cancer Ward_).
I have a wonderful Boxer dog.

Sooo....I suppose that's the best I can do for now!

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