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generally speaking, when you want somebody you can't have, do you think it's best to tell them, or to keep it to yourself? and why?

does your answer change based on:
- the way in which you want them? (i.e. love, lust, silly crush)
- the reason you can't have them? (i.e. they're in a new relationship, they're in a committed relationship, they're married, they're of the opposite sexuality, they're just not that into you, you're in a relationship)
- who they are to you? (i.e. a good friend you've developed feelings for, a co-worker you'll have to see every day until you retire, a friend of a friend you could either be-friend or never see again)

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I keep it to myself usually.

I don't think the way in which i want them would change the answer... i wouldn;t tell someone i have a silly crush on them, or that i love them, if it wasn't reciprocated 9and never would be).

i'm not sure about the reasoning changing thing though... because i am so shit at admitting my feelings, i think that they would have to make the first move.

I originally wrote that who they are didn;t matter... but if it was someone i HAD to see on a daily basis (ie a co-worker), then i would defo not say anything. Or if it was someone who also knew everyone i knew, i wouldnt say anything because i would be terrified they would tell my friends and everyone would secretly laugh at me.

Sometimes, i think the fact that you can't have them is half the fun. like sometimes when you get something, it's a let down. But if you can never have it, you will never be let down.

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